Seeking a tree house (and love). An Unusual Gay First Gay Date in Kenya

Treehouse and site of first date in Kenya, ManAboutWorld gay travel magazine
Yep, that’s the treehouse.

From ManAboutWorld: In Kenya, when you meet a guy you like, take him on a safari. It’s a fast way to get to know another person. The pressures of long, dusty roads and roughing it in the Kenya bush with no daily luxuries brings out the very best or worst in someone.

I decided to take my first date, Karl, to a tree house that I had heard about some years ago. With the Land Rover full of supplies, and a hand-drawn map, we set off towards the Galana Conservancy which runs along the edge of the Tsavo East National Park.

It was a hot overcast day and we soon found ourselves in the middle of a rain storm which turned the red, dusty

Karl on his first date in Kenya, ManAboutWorld gay travel magazine

road to thick mud. I decided to offer Karl another option for the night, seeing as we did not know for sure if the tree house was waterproof let alone still there; and on top of this we had the mighty Galana River to cross, which in this rain I had a feeling might be tricky. I asked him if he would like to ditch our original plan and instead head to Bigi’s Camp in Tsavo for a guaranteed soft bed and hot shower. It’s rare for someone to go along with me on an adventure, but to my delight, Karl insisted that we had to find this tree house.


We finally reached the edge of the river and sure enough the causeway was covered over by the muddy waters of the great Galana. Neither of us was sure whether  the vehicle would make it across the river but as we were so close to the end of the journey and to this mythical tree house I decided to test the waters and walk across before attempting to drive the car though. In normal circumstances I would not have been so foolish. Firstly the river is known for its crocodiles; in fact my father had worked further up this river as a young man and the camp cook had been eaten by one. Secondly, should the river be too deep for a car, it would most certainly be too deep for me. I could see myself, my dignity and possibly my life being washed away. On the other hand, I really wanted to impress Karl and so I took the plunge and walked carefully into the water. I could feel the pull of the current against my legs, but the causeway under foot felt intact and the river, though flowing fast, only came up to just past my knees.

Dion crossed this river on his first date in Kenya, ManAboutWorld gay travel magazine
OK, you go first!

We carefully made the crossing without any problems and carried on our journey as the sun started to set. After driving for another hour in the dark we finally saw a tree and with a little bit of imagination and a lot of optimism, we could make out a very rudimentary tree house on top of it. I must say it did not look altogether inviting. If Karl was also a little apprehensive about our bleak accommodation he did not show it. Instead he clambered up the ladder shouting down that it was dry inside and apart from some cobwebs and a few bugs it seemed fit for human habitation. We set up camp and took an ice-breaking shower both taking turns pouring a can of water over each other’s head. While having our bush bath a herd of very quiet elephants marched right past us. They were as startled by our presence as we were of theirs and luckily we all went running in opposite directions.

We had a much needed bottle of wine and a delicious dinner cooked on our camp stove and then fell asleep listening to the sounds of hyena and lion in the distance. We awoke the next morning to find ourselves high up in our tree, under a big, blue African sky. It is amazing how a little bit of danger and adventure can bring two men so much closer together.


The best way to get to the Galana Conservancy is to travel by road from Watamu or Malindi to the Sala gate, Tsavo. Turn Right just before the gate heading down to the Galana River and across into the Galana Conservancy. The trip is approximately 155 miles and takes between 3 and 4 hours. You need a 4X4 vehicle to do it especially if you go during the rains that fall in November, May and June. This treehouse is very rustic: There is no water and you have to take everything you need there (and carry out everything, including trash). To find it, ask for a map at the Galana Conservancy gate.

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Published by edsalvato

Educator, marketing, communications and travel safety expert; LGBTQ Pavilion at the New York Times Travel Show; public speaker; expert panel organizer and moderator

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